Why is it that the friends you consistently are willing to listen to when they are having a bad day and need to vent the least likely to return the favor? Just an observation on the nature of human interaction.
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Why is it that the friends you consistently are willing to listen to when they are having a bad day and need to vent the least likely to return the favor? Just an observation on the nature of human interaction.
Call the Nestle Crunch Hotline 1-800-295-0051. When you are asked if you want to continue in English or Spanish, just wait quietly for about 5 seconds and you will smile. Keep going and press 4 listen to the options…then press 7. When you are done laughing, go back and try some of the other items from the menu…
Have a great night, my friends!
These are in no particular order:
1) Star Trek: Next Generation, season 7.
2) Pushing Daisies, starting with season 1.
3) Entourage, starting with season 1.
4) Mad Men, starting with season 1.
5) Six Feet Under, starting with season 1.
6) Dead Like Me, starting with season 1.
7) X-Files, starting with season 1.
NCIS, starting with season 1.
9) Boston Legal, starting with season 1.
0) Whatever the cable networks are running in marathon mode?
So reply in the comments or via twitter…. if you care.
Part 2 of the series of things I’ve learned in 2009. Some are amusing, some are enlightening and many are both.
#2: You can’t make people behave in ways which go against their own self-awareness and mental configuration. People do the things they do because of how they are wired, how they were raised, what motivations they come to possess as they mature and probably dozens of factors of which neither you nor they are aware. It can be frustrating to see someone treating you badly, or dishonestly, but in reality, it’s usually easier just to let them do what they do and cope with it by figuring out ways to get what you need out of the relationship. Sometimes the person doesn’t know that they are being what amounts to evil, and I’ve always wanted to believe that was the case the majority of the time. Unfortunately, that isn’t the case. The sad reality is that 90% of the time, those people who treat others in evil ways, are fully aware of what they’re doing, they just are incapable of recognizing that how they’re behaving is despicable. Vile behavior is unavoidable. If you accept that that is how many people are, life is more peaceful than if you try to fight it or re-shape them to meet your needs.
As 2009 comes to a close, I’ve learned a few things. Some are amusing, some are enlightening, many are both!
#1: When someone says something insensitive or ignorant, whether it is about you, or not… it’s always more effective to simply stare at them from across the conference room table with the slightest of smile and a twinkle in your eye. Don’t say anything, just fix your gaze at them until they get so painfully uncomfortable that they won’t look at you for the remainder of the meeting.
This is really the greatest time of year… warm-ish days, chilly nights.
I think the thing I miss most during late-Fall and Winter is the shortage of wine festivals (and beer festivals too)… at least the outdoor type. I know there are indoor events and tastings, but most of those don’t excite me that much… although I’m more than happy to go LOL.
I managed to make it to the VA Wine Festival again this year, and that’s always a great time… there is something about an early fall day in the sunshine, sampling wine with friends and just relaxing, that being indoors doesn’t bring. Unfortunately, circumstance and timing made me miss several of my favorites… Linganore’s monthly festivals from May to October are always mellow, fun times, even if the wine sampling is limited to their own varieties. It’s the perfect place to hang out with friends a picnic lunch and a few bottles of wine. I also missed Wine In The Woods @ Merriweather… It’s in Symphony Woods which might possibly be the perfect outdoor wine festival venue. Again, a great environment, incredible food and of course the best Maryland Wines too.
We’re lucky that there’s a local winery right here in town too… Frederick Cellars on East Street is great. I did a broadcast there last Friday and had a chance to spend time with Charlie and Emily and their staff… great people and really good wine too!
This lamenting of the end of the outdoor wine festival season brings me to my greater point… Should you be looking for the perfect gift for me… (hint hint hint) might I suggest:
So there you go… I started out to kinda gripe about the change of the seasons and we ended up with a small shopping list and a not so subtle hint for some good Christmas gifts for me.
Dear Constant Irritant:
I’d really enjoy it if you would stop being a whiny, sniveling irritant. You see, if you avoid this, then you have more time to accomplish your goals. When you are being whiny and snivelingly irritating, you’re being counterproductive when it comes to accomplishing your goals without needing others to back you up. I’m sure you can understand why I find that to be “constantly irritating,” my Constant Irritant.
For you see, I have my own goals to accomplish, and whenever I have to stop because you’re causing me irritation by worrying about things about which you shouldn’t have any concern, not only can’t I accomplish my goals, I lose time… of which I think you can agree, there is far too little as it is.
So, in closing, please stop being irritating. Life would be much simpler for us all, and you’d be a happier person if you just focused on your purpose and not on creating drama needlessly. (Of course I’d be remiss if I didn’t acknowledge that you might not even be aware that you’re creating needless drama, but I’m pretty sure you know exactly what you’re doing.)
I appreciate your attention.
–Marc
… have a question…
What should I call it?
I typically use names of brands of soda, specifically grape sodas (shocking, I know!)… in it’s life as a sad, pathetic VISTA powered machine, it was called FAYGO… (Goes with my Mac MINI named “Nehi” and my Macbook named “Fanta” and the Powerbook named “Shasta”…)
Suggestions? You can comment below, or via Twitter, if you want.
… I don’t want to hear anyone complain when my radio station starts playing non-stop Christmas music around Thanksgiving…. I don’t want to get the annual series of abusive emails from listeners…. because:
KROGER Supermarkets have already started playing Christmas music! Target has Halloween decorations up AND Christmas cards, decorations and more surrounding the Halloween area…. Oh.. and rumors have it that some Hallmark Stores have been playing Christmas music since July.
So, in November, when you think about emailing or calling your favorite radio station to abuse the DJ for doing his job and playing non-stop Christmas music, remember that WE don’t do this in September… or July… and remember that the person at the other end of the phone or email is a person.